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See 1 question about Remember Me Like This…. Lists with This Book. Community Reviews. Showing Rating details. More filters. Sort order. Jun 08, Elyse Walters rated it it was amazing. I thought it was gripping, and complex. I still remember this family! Highly recommend it --if you haven't read it. This book should be 5 stars I was 'hooked' from page one! The only reason I'm not giving this story 5 stars --is my patience was starting to be tested about the last pages.
I wanted the conclusion faster. I just couldn't stand it any longer How is this book going to come together? I do think those last pages were not as strong as the rest of the book yet, overall, this story will stay with the reader a long time! Its GOOD!!!! Lovely-beautiful writing is a plus also!!!! I was able to almost smell the shrimp My mind started getting restless towards the very end -- maybe --that's the point though, its still restless.
I'm still thinking about this story-this family-this community. I 'still' want to know more about these characters. Just the characters alone --let alone the story -- much could be discussed. Here's a line I read a few times: Hm??? I'd rather cover you in bubble wrap" I laughed sooooooooooo hard at the above sentence.
I wouldn't actually 'say' those words to my childrenbut some days??? To love: family love! View all 43 comments. Jun 10, Jeanette "Astute Crabbist" rated it liked it Shelves: all-fiction , domestic-and-relationship-fiction , america. Lick lick lick lick lick suck suck suck lick lick lick suck suck suck suck At the end there's just that white paper stick soggy with your saliva. Bret Anthony Johnson is a talented writer, and I would read another novel from him for sure.
But he gave us all the good stuff in the first half of the story 3. But he gave us all the good stuff in the first half of the story. In the second half he belabored all the points he'd already made, and ultimately didn't hand over what he made us crave early on. Now if you'll excuse me, I need to go brush my teeth.
View all 18 comments. Apr 24, Carol rated it it was amazing Recommended to Carol by: Jill. Shelves: fiction. The Hook - Have you ever played that trust game called Fall Back? Two of my trusted friends, Jill S. Many books have explored the theme and horror of a missing child.
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Few have done it as well as Bret Anthony Johnston. There you have it, simple yet so complex. Justin Campbell disappears from his coastal Texas town. Then one afternoon, the impossible happens. View all 19 comments. Devastating and original with an attention to detail which will leave the reader enmeshed in loss, hope and unrelenting memory. It is hard to believe that this was Johnston's first full length novel; he writes with the grace of a seasoned novelist. The Campbell family has been torn apart by the disappearance of their son Justin.
Although at first united in a quest to find Justin, time has worn them down. Eric has found some solace in an affair, Laura finds a refuge in dolphin rescue and their ot Devastating and original with an attention to detail which will leave the reader enmeshed in loss, hope and unrelenting memory. Eric has found some solace in an affair, Laura finds a refuge in dolphin rescue and their other son Griffin, in skateboarding and his first girlfriend. But, they are all painfully aware of the void which left by Justin and of their own feelings of unassailable guilt.
Four years later, unbelievably, Justin is located by the police and his kidnapper arrested. But as time goes on, they realize life will never be as it was before. They are haunted by the spectre of what Justin has been through, how much he is changed and by their own failings. The perpetrator's plea leaves them facing them the fear that, for them, the world will never feel secure again. There is the Before and the After but it is what was between those spectrums, that will continue to haunt each of the Campbells.
Johnston paints an acutely vivid picture of a family suffering one of the worst crisis ever. His depiction of the hot and unrelenting Texas summer leaves you feeling breathless and sweaty. The prose is clean, lucid and flawless. It is so compelling, so taut; he draws you effortlessly into the tide of the story. Remember Me Like This will have you holding your breath as it draws to it's surprising conclusion. Powerful and gripping - you must read this novel. Most Highly Recommended. View all 15 comments. I really, really wanted to love this book. I kept losing interest in it. Great storyline, it just felt like it was lacking something.
View all 9 comments. Apr 22, switterbug Betsey rated it it was amazing Shelves: favorites. Victims of childhood trauma often won't have the vocabularies to describe their emotions. This is neither clinically rendered nor a potboiler. Rather, as it says "There can be disturbances of every kind--eating disturbances, disturbances in his sexuality and attachments, disturbances in fear-based behavior. Rather, as it says in the book description, this book begins where others tend to end.
This deals with post-traumatic afflictions of family after one of the sons, Justin, who was kidnapped at age eleven, returns four years later.benyrofira.tk
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Roxanne Gay's novel of PTSD, An Untamed State , concerned the kidnapping, captivity and post-rescue of a young mother, and how it affected all the family members. That book started with the amplified action and graphic displays of trauma, and later moved into the more nuanced territory. However, Johnston's book is consistently understated. There are no overt atrocities; if anything, Johnston curtailed the gruesome events, and delicately implied what we tacitly understand about the trauma, allowing the reader to interpret and move on from the headline-grabbing type of action and into the deeper recesses of the emotional wounds.
That is what this is about--how a family's life is permanently altered from the events, an upheaval that requires therapy and time. Johnston reveals the contrast of before and after--how their lives have been capsized in innumerable ways. And, especially, he depicts the isolation that each family member feels, and the way they walk on ice to give a wide berth to each others' fragility. But, we feel the tension of that ice about to crack. Johnston's luminous use of extended metaphors, such as conveyed in Laura's volunteer work with ailing or impaired dolphins, invariably brings it home to the central premise.
Johnston's prose is flawless, and every passage is organic and lucid. He doesn't put too fine a point on things, allowing the reader to translate what is revealed to what is not. He tells you enough, but does not telegraph events. There isn't one inauthentic moment in this novel. His descriptions of Corpus are so ripe that I felt that I was there, as I have been numerous times as a tourist. He brought the city into sharp relief--the Harbor Bridge, the brackish water, and the townspeople. And, he sets up a suspenseful plot line in the prologue, which keeps us on tenterhooks until the very end.
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I am astonished that this is his debut novel but he does have short story collections under his belt. No wonder he is Harvard's creative writing director. View all 16 comments. Perhaps this is something I need to work on next year, but I considered any rating system, extremely subjective, arbitrary and frankly a little silly. With that said I also admit that giving books low ratings 3 stars or less is difficult to me.
So I did agonize a little bit about giving a low rating to this very popular novel, mostly because so many of my Goodreads friends loved it. We come to realize that what to many outsiders looks like a picture perfect, happing ending is anything but. This is my one big peeves when reading fiction: children or teens that sound either too childish or too grown-up for their age. Although overall Remember Me Like This is a decent read, to me it felt flat.
Somehow I craved that feeling of being surprised or engaged. View all 17 comments. Apr 24, Julie Christine rated it liked it Shelves: read , contemporary-fiction , usa-contemporary , mystery-crime-thriller. Much as Emma Donoghue did in 's smash hit Room , Bret Anthony Johnston leads us through the aftermath of human captivity. In fact, we knew very little of what happened to Justin Campbell, who vanished one day near his home outside Corpus Christi, TX. The book opens four years after his disappearance with the news that he has been found.
Instead of shining the character spotlight on the kidnapped, Johnston r Much as Emma Donoghue did in 's smash hit Room , Bret Anthony Johnston leads us through the aftermath of human captivity. Instead of shining the character spotlight on the kidnapped, Johnston rotates the narrative through the perspectives of his parents, Laura and Eric, his younger brother, Griffin, and his grandfather, Cecil.
Through flashbacks, we are immersed in their surreal existence, in which one world halted the day Justin disappeared and another spins on. Justin's room remains unchanged, except for the pile of birthday and Christmas gifts his mother buys for him every year. The modest Campbell house suffers from neglect, as does the Campbell marriage.
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There are shadows everywhere: Laura is becoming one, present only at the Marine Lab where she volunteers; thirteen-year-old Griffin grows up in the shadow of his brother; and Eric lives a double life. It is an achingly real portrait of a family unable to grieve, yet losing hope as the years pass without word of their son. Johnston masterfully maintains the tension of this loss and hope, even as we know that Justin has been safely returned to his family. That tension morphs from "What happened to Justin?
Upon her son's return, Laura transforms, throwing open the literal curtains in the house and the figurative curtains of her depressed state. Griffin falls in love, becoming the center of attention in someone else's world, still playing second fiddle to his older brother at home. I couldn't put this down until, well, I can't remember when I last had such a change of heart and brain while reading a book.
I was riveted for the first two-thirds, then the tension simply spluttered out and I couldn't wait to be done with it. Because the author was so intent on not bringing us into Justin's mind, the emotions and actions of the rest of the family became repetitive to the point of exasperation. Eric and Cecil's plot was melodrama that cheapened a nuanced and intense emotional thriller, but couldn't lift the narrative from doldrums of navel-gazing that brought down the final third.
The one character I most wanted to hear from, Justin, had a walk-on role in his own story. It was a strangely unsatisfying experience, yet this is tremendous, vivid writing from an author I would seek out again. View 2 comments. Apr 05, Carol rated it it was amazing Shelves: e-audible. This is a quiet and compelling novel, reminiscent of those written by Kent Haurf. The novel it told in the alternating perspectives of four of the family members as they attempt to reconcile, reintegrate and heal from what must be the worst nightmare that any parent will suffer. The family members have all been transformed by the kidnapping and wrestle with how to move forward once Justin has returned.
The writing is remarkable and emotionally powerful. I highly recommend this wonderful book and author! View all 22 comments. Feb 05, Ron Charles rated it liked it. A few years ago, I started avoiding imperiled children. In a brief prologue, joggers in Corpus Christi, Tex. Their marriage desiccated by anguish, Eric is having an affair, while Laura tends ailing dolphins at a marine laboratory.
The Amber Alerts have fallen silent, the photocopies have blown off telephone poles and cable new reporters have lost interest. Nov 07, Tooter rated it it was amazing. Nearly perfect for me Highly recommend.
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View all 7 comments. Apr 22, Jill rated it it was amazing Shelves: psychological-mysteries , all-time-favorites. Bret Anthony Johnston, where have you been all my reading life? For a character-based reader like me, this luminous debut book is sheer manna from heaven. The concept is deceptively simple: an year-old boy named Justin goes missing one day and is likely abducted.
His parents, Eric and Laura, and his younger brother Griffin are all well-liked in their Corpus Christi community; they muddle their way through the four ensuing years, coming apa Bret Anthony Johnston, where have you been all my reading life? His parents, Eric and Laura, and his younger brother Griffin are all well-liked in their Corpus Christi community; they muddle their way through the four ensuing years, coming apart personally and as a family.
The genius of this author is that — without any manipulation — he closely examines what the granting of this fortuitous return really means to each of them. The emotions are so real that the writing took my breath away. How could she not understand such hideous gravity? Everywhere she looked, the absolute and crushing weight of the past. Other times, she would have sworn she was a sieve. Not normal. Not familiar. Not one. The writing is assured, confident and clear eyed; the characters are so real they could step out of the pages; and the insights are organic and beautifully realized.
These are all good people, regular and steady and seemingly unafflicted. I simply cannot recommend this book highly enough. I envy those who are starting it for the first time.
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You can choose from any of those below, or bring us your own favorite poem or prayer. Scenes from my life flashed across the sky. In each, I noticed footprints. Sometimes there were two sets of footprints; other times there was only one. During the lowest time of my life I could see only one set of footprints so I said, "Lord, you promised me, that you would walk with me always.
Why, when I have needed you most, would you leave me? The times when you have seen only one set of footprints, it was then that I carried you. God's Garden 2 God looked around the garden, and saw an empty space. Don't grieve for me, for now I'm free; I'm following the path God laid for me. Tasks undone must stay that way. I've found that peace at the close of the day. Be not burdened with times of sorrow;I wish for you the sunshine of tomorrow. My life's been full, I savored much;Good friends, good times,a loved one's touch. Perhaps my time seemed all too brief;Don't lengthen it now with undue grief.
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You must not tie yourself to me in tears;. I won't be far away, for life goes on. Though you can't see or touch me, I'll be near; and if you listen with your. Little Angels 2 When God calls little children to dwell with Him above,. For this is a journey that we all must take and each one must go alone.
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Hail Mary Hail Mary, full of grace,. The Complete Serenity Prayer God grant me the serenity to accept. Almighty God, through the death of Your Son on the cross, you have overcome death for us. Through his burial and resurrection from the dead you have made the grave a holy place and restored to us eternal life. We pray for those who died believing in Jesus and are buriedwith him in the hope of rising again. God of the living and the dead, may those who faithfully believed in you on earth praise you forever in the joy of heaven.
Thee O Lord: Lord hear my voice. Let thine ears be attentive to the voice of my supplication. If Thou, O Lord, wilt mark iniquities, Lord who shall stand it? I cannot be seen, but I can be heard. So as you stand upon a shore gazing at a beautiful sea, As you look upon a flower and admire its simplicity, Remember me.
Remember me in your heart: Your thoughts, and your memories, Of the times we loved, The times we cried, The times we fought, The times we laughed. For if you always think of me, I will never have gone. Although I've tried, I can't find the name of this poem's writer. If you know please tell me. Through clouds like ashes The red sun flashes On village windows That glimmer red. Shadows are trailing, My heart is bewailing And tolling within Like a funeral bell. The day will come when my body will lie upon a white sheet neatly tucked under four corners of a mattress located in a hospital; busily occupied with the living and the dying.
At a certain moment a doctor will determine that my brain has ceased to function and that, for all intents and purposes, my life has stopped. When that happens, do not attempt to instill artificial life into my body by the use of a machine. And don't call this my deathbed. Let it be called the bed of life, and let my body be taken from it to help others lead fuller lives. Give my sight to the man who has never seen a sunrise, a baby's face or love in the eyes of a woman. Give my blood to the teenager who was pulled from the wreckage of his car, so that he might live to see his grandchildren play.
Take my bones, every muscle, every fiber and nerve in my body and find a way to make a crippled child walk. Take my cells, if necessary, and let them grow so that, someday a speechless boy will shout at the crack of a bat and a deaf girl will hear the sound of rain against her window. If you must bury something, let it be my faults, my weakness and all prejudice against my fellow man. Give my sins to the devil. Give my soul to God. If, by chance, you wish to remember me, do it with a kind deed or word to someone who needs you.
If you do all I have asked, I will live forever. The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want. He maketh me to lie down in green pastures: he leadeth me beside the still waters. He restoreth my soul: he leadeth me in the paths of righteousness for his name's sake. Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil: for thou art with me; thy rod and thy staff they comfort me. Thou preparest a table before me in the presence of mine enemies: thou anointest my head with oil; my cup runneth over.
Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life: and I will dwell in the house of the Lord for ever. Death is nothing at all, I have only slipped into the next room I am I and you are you Whatever we were to each other, that we are still. Call me by my old familiar name, Speak to me in the easy way which you always used Put no difference in your tone, Wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow Laugh as we always laughed at the little jokes we enjoyed together. Play, smile, think of me, pray for me. Let my name be ever the household world that it always was, Let it be spoken without effect, without the trace of shadow on it.
Life means all that it ever meant. It it the same as it ever was, there is unbroken continuity. Why should I be out of mind because I am out of sight? I am waiting for you, for an interval, somewhere very near, Just around the corner. All is well. I am a thousand winds that blow. I am the diamond glint on snow. I am the sunlight on ripened grain. I am the gentle autumn rain. When you wake in the morning hush, I am the swift, uplifting rush Of quiet birds in circling flight.
I am the soft starlight at night. Do not stand at my grave and weep. I am not there, I do not sleep. Do not stand at my grave and cry. I am not there, I did not die! Then Almitra spoke, saying, "We would ask now of Death. But how shall you find it unless you seek it in the heart of life?
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