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And you can have my cupcakes too. I'll even throw in my lunchbox since you don't have one. And I made you a cake. Please be nice. Please marry me. I'll even jack my butt up nice and high like they do in yoga. It's so comfortable being upside down. I just love it! For him to think about forever, there has to be something he respects within you. Like a strong wit Relationship Principle 1 In romance, there's nothing more attractive to a man than a woman who has dignity and pride in who she is.

In addition, you have to know your own mind. The more you focus on elevating yourself, the more he will work to be at the top of your priority list. He considers you a long-term prospect when you've added the key ingredient: respect. And respect is the glue that holds everything together. Kara is a perfect example of why smart, confident women come out on top. She was leaving for a meeting, and he told her to wear a dress instead of the pantsuit she had on. Then he told her she was wearing too much makeup. What the nice girl would have done is run out and buy a new wardrobe.

But Kara playfully put him in check: "Listen here, Versace. This outfit has always been fine. And I haven't had any complaints about the makeup either. But if you'd like, I'll let you know when I'm wearing this in advance. That way, if you don't want to see me in it, you don't have to come over.

He has to see that you call your own shots and that you don't need input from anyone about how to put your socks on. This says, "I am secure. The bitch doesn't audition or try to be the "best in show. Kim Basinger said something interesting: "I don't have time to be classified as difficult, and I don't have time to care. When a man sees you are happy with him but you can be just as happy having nothing to do with him, that's when he won't want to leave your side. When you are happy, you are sexy. Not only this, bitches have more fun. My friend Angela had a date with a guy on a Friday and they went out for Chinese food.

They tried several dishes and had plenty of leftovers, so Angela took home all the doggie bags. The following evening, she had date with a different guy and decided to be the "hostess with the mostest. The fortune cookie said: "The catered din-din was a smashing success. However, I would be remiss if I did not include this one expert gourmet cooking tip: Don't keep the parsley. If it gets soggy in the microwave it will be a dead giveaway every time. Notice what Kara and Angela had in common: Neither one of them felt the need to overcompensate.

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This earned the man's respect. It was expected that they knock themselves out because the rulebook says women are supposed to. When they refused, a light bulb went off over his head. The message "I am worth something" is what turns him into a believer. In a music-channel documentary, Tim McGraw said something very intriguing about his wife, Faith Hill: "She's a straight shooter, that's for sure. Instead, he commented on the attribute men respect most: a backbone.

Do you think he's proud that his wife doesn't take B. I'd bet that he is. Relationship Principle 2 He marries the woman who won't lay down like linoleum. This brings us to the definition of a marrying bitch -- aka a strong, spirited woman who can stand up for herself. The bitch is not rude or abrasive because she's smart enough to know that being considerate is more effective. But she won't compromise herself to be in a relationship.

She won't work overtime to "catch a husband. She has a certain moxie about her. Sugar and spice Since many "nice" women mistakenly believe that being a strong woman aka a bitch is a bad thing, let's explore some of the criteria of the so-called eligible woman. Then we'll find out from men what they really think about women who behave this way.

Chances are, the guy wasn't a millionaire or a brain surgeon with six-pack abs who was hung like a barnyard animal on Viagra. Chances are, he didn't get you off five times before he got his. But there was something special about him. He had a couple of features that did it for you and a certain magic that made you tingle. Men who want to fit in a relationship are looking for that same magic. Relationship Principle 3 He doesn't marry a woman who is perfect. He marries the woman who is interesting.

This is one of the biggest myths perpetuated by the media: If you are perfect, beautiful, and rich, you will get the respect and love you crave. So they say. And now back to reality. When a man meets a woman who seems too perfect, too sweet, or too agreeable, he tends to become bored very quickly.

Beauty pageants are a good example of how women are misled into thinking that the most important pursuits in life are beauty tips and "man catching" skills. Granted, they offer educational grants and scholarships, which is very ironic because the only men watching are the ones who like really stupid women. Intelligent men think it's embarrassing for a woman to pose and smile like she's always that chipper. Everybody knows the losers want to strangle the winner, and the Southern Belle who wins Miss Congeniality is dying to tell the judges: "Fuck all, y'all I plan to end world hunger and find a cure for cancer.

And once and for all, I intend to put an end to the global shortage of flower pots. That way all my relatives can eat. Invite the press. I'm wearing my thousand-dollar Manolo Blahnik shoes! The farmers show the cows the same way. They walk their prized Jersey cow across a stage in front of an audience with judges, and maybe the cow even twirls around a couple of times. Then the winning cow gets a satin ribbon draped over it, which has the title and the year on it.

They even have twelve-month calendars featuring the "cow of the month. Picture a woman trying to be that "perfect girl. The handbag matches the shoe button. She giggles on cue. For dinner, she orders two olives with low-cal dressing on the side. Without realizing it, this woman has already marked herself: temporary. In his mind? When she's artificial, he becomes wary of who she really is and what her real motivations are. Usually, he figures she's putting on a show to trap him. So it never goes to the next level.

This is why some relationships never shift into second gear. By trying to be something she's not, the woman automatically gets marked with the "insecure" stamp. She'll sap me of all my energy. Not only this, but when a man thinks a woman is weak or insecure, he won't feel the need to work at the relationship. It becomes "male entertainment" at that point. The relationship becomes a sideshow.

He'll kick back, crack a beer, and think, "She's trying so hard, I'll never have to break a sweat in this relationship. He'll start throwing relationship Frisbees, just to see how hard she'll run and how high she'll jump. Men are used to this. So they try to bait you into this behavior.

He may tell you on a second date that he likes red toenail polish. Or that he likes a particular item of clothing. If you immediately begin to "work" to be what he wants, it lessens his respect. To better understand, let's take a sneak peek at a page inside the male rulebook. This is the hush-hush highly classified stuff. A page from the male rulebook The definition of unforgettably sexy: A woman who can function on her own and take care of herself.

She won't let me always have the upper hand. And, she can tell anyone to go jump in the lake whenever she feels like it. That's the woman he'll work harder to be with. Whenever you are too worried about someone else's approval, that person loses respect for you. When a man sees you knocking yourself out from the jump start, you are setting yourself up for a lopsided relationship, because you reinforce every guy's unspoken belief: "If you ignore her, she'll seek your validation and reassurance.

Adopt the philosophy of "approval neither desired nor required. True confidence is born when you Relationship Principle 5Don't believe what anyone tells you about yourself. Sophia Loren said, "Beauty is how you feel inside, and it reflects in your eyes. It is not something physical. And that makes him say, "Gee, I wonder, what is that special magic she's got? When a man can't crack your code, or figure out where your insecurities are, you are no longer readable. That's when he doesn't have a percent hold on you, and he has to put in his 50 percent share to win you over, keep your interest, and maintain a reciprocal and viable relationship.

According to him, all his ex-girlfriends are supermodels and had sex with him ten times a day. Clearly, a figment of his imagination. To prove it, all you have to do is take a quick look at a photo of his ex-girlfriend. If it is true she gave it up ten times a day, there will be visible signs. The back of her head will look like a rat's nest. Her ankles will be permanently affixed behind her ears.

And she'll be so emaciated, someone will be tossing her a cheeseburger. Women also get confused about what men want from observing the magazines men read.

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For example, nudie magazines. I don't know about you, but I don't regularly sit on a bale of hay in the middle a cornfield, butt naked, in order to catch a sunset. No matter how freezing it is, the model is usually sucking on a finger while hanging upside down from a tree, and is quoted as saying, "I love being naked.

It makes me feel so close to nature. Turn-ons: Twinkies, Popsicles, and sunsets. Most influential person in my life: My puppy. Favorite sport: Naked kayaking. Proudest accomplishment: Tying both shoelaces in under five minutes. Naturally, women see these formidable influences and think, "This is how I have to behave. If I am a freak in the bedroom, and I cook a mean meat loaf, he'll run out and buy me a ring. When a man comes home from a hard day's work, the last thing he wants is to find his wife naked on the front porch, licking a multicolored lollipop, wearing her hair in pigtails, and watering the tulips.

He'll be thinking, "She's two sandwiches short of a picnic. He wanted to answer my question but couldn't stop laughing. Then he said, "Definitely a turn-off. She's not really being herself. Men do not marry the "little girl" types because they don't want to feel like they are adopting a young child. The only reason men like stupid women is so they can take advantage of them -- in the short term. A quality guy worth his salt wants a partner who is competent and multidimensional. Someone who can handle things when he's not around. That doesn't mean men won't break their necks to look at a woman who is showing a lot of skin.

But at the same time, they'll pass judgment: "Short-term only. Relationship Principle 6 Men see how you dress, and then make assumptions about your relationship potential. A man named Doug explained, "It makes a woman more attractive if she's showing less skin. It makes you want to find out what's underneath. A guy doesn't want to get to bed and think, 'No big deal. I've already seen this. That's half the excitement. What do men see? Whether or not you are a mental challenge. That's why you hear men talk about nurse fantasies or the girl-next-door or librarian types.

If a woman wears something that doesn't "show all her stuff," like jeans and a sweater, what a guy reads is: "It's not here on display for you. You'll have to work a little to get this. And her stock goes up. Evan is a classic example of how quickly men categorize women. He met Blair at work and asked her if she'd like to have drinks that evening. She was wearing a silk blouse that showed a little, but not too much. Then she ran home to freshen up. He recalls, "I knew it wasn't going anywhere from day one.

He'd rather see a formfitting blouse than a plunging neckline. Or a sundress that shows a hint of her silhouette. He's much more fascinated by a long skirt with a slit up the side than a micro-mini that shows the whole leg. The peek-a-boo element. Not knowing when her leg will pop out triggers his imagination. And once you get him curious and thinking about you, that's when his thoughts turn to the future.

Relationship Principle 7 When a man sees you wearing very revealing clothes, he'll usually assume you don't have anything else going for you. Once he reduces you to one dimension, he'll keep you there. He'll never take you seriously or think of you as having enough worth for a long-term relationship. Men want to marry a woman who is the whole package. News flash: If men were to explain this to women, they'd never get laid. And it's cool to break out the naughty-schoolgirl outfit or jump up and down on a pole wearing a wig and a Little Bo Peep costume.

Some fitness centers even have classes that teach women how to dance like a stripper. Women begin grinding their chairs and crawling across the floor on their hands and knees while "Ain't Too Proud To Beg" is blaring over the loudspeaker. While it might be really comical to watch as you look on from the treadmill, you can't be thinking, "Uh-oh. I better give him a lap dance in the La-Z-Boy to keep him happy. Beginning of August we fought and tried to talk but she said she was done.

Mid August she talked to me again, changed her number, blocked me on facebook and only through Instagram did we communicate. First week of September we bump into each other at her city, make eye contact and she ignores me and walks right past me. Present Day: I still love her, have feelings for her and have forgiven her for everything she has done through NC. To this day I have not had a single response or signal her unblocking me on social media, text message, friend stalking me and viewing my stories, friend messaging me, NOTHING.

I have no idea whether or not she wants to get back, is waiting for me to make the first move I always did it in the past to reconcile , or is really with someone else. I have gone to therapy, done a bunch of research and honestly I have no clue what will happen next, but at least I can expect the worst. I even asked her to see a doctor and she gets mad every time I said this, people say she is a narcissist, and overall a bad person.

I am not blinded by love trust me I think NC has helped me a lot with thinking about this logically instead of emotionally and yes I still want to be with her. What should I do? Should I remain in no contact or should I send a letter to her that outlines not only my mistakes, but hers and ours as well. Honestly Drew, you want to have a full ex recovery plan and if you go to my home page I offer a lot of tools and resources. My eBooks are the shortcut to figuring out how all these pieces fit together and how to optimize your chances. You have made great strides if you are now looking at things logically, because our emotions can hijack our whole being.

Always had a great time; obviously cared for each other; sex great. She asked me several times to define our relationship. Did I see us together or dating, etc, after her divorce came through. In retrospect, I never really answered her. She became more distant as she got closer to divorce. In my mind and unspoken to her was that after divorce, we would date and play it by ear, and see what came of it, Over several months, she became very involved in a new church which is geared toward recovery.

Started dating a guy in the church who is in a recovery program. I found out about this accidentally on social media We had an uncomfortable long face to face confrontation and I told her how strongly I felt about her, which seemed to surprise her. She told me that she thought our relationship had been based on sex, I suppose she may have felt used. Told me she had selected the guy in her church over me because: 1. I repeatedly called her to no avail.

Divorce still pending. I know she is stressed and miserable and has cried a few times when we talk. Grapevine tells me she and the guy are more friends now than romantically involved, but who knows? I want to contact her and suggest we meet for a drink. I now realize how much she means to me and that I should have made it more clear earlier on. Sometimes taking the long view of relationship is the best and most pragmatic approach we can implement. So give her space, but let her know via text that you get it…and you will respect her need for space…. Then employ NC.

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Feel free to check out my home page for some of the resources. Also, i have a site called exgirlfriendrecovery. Chris, thank you for your advice. She is moving across the state in a couple of days. As you can see, I am still in the desperation stage to not mess up further. Ok…so a outside of the box is to send her a Message in a Bottle. A real bottle…like a wine bottle…with a brief classy message, scrolled up with a ribbon tie.

Cork the bottle and package it and mail it. And if you really want an added touch, there are merchants that will put a special label on the bottle. Been in a relationship with 27 year old for two years. We both divorced our exes for each other. I suffered from lots of guilt, shame, remorse for leaving my wife and family unit of 12 years total, kids are 3 and 6. My emotions played a lot into monthly volatile, alcohol driven fights, even threats of self harm in order to get attention. As she is very beautiful and flirty possibly histrionic personality. Long story short, my family saw how bad our fights were getting and asked her to not contact me or my kids if she really loved me.

She is at 5 weeks NC, I have talked to her at work twice in that time emails, texts have been sent from me with no response from her. She has blocked me on social media and my phone number the day my family asked her to. She also reiterated she made a promise to my family and is holding the promise. She is also the most stubborn person I have ever met. However, she is also moving 5 hours hours away this weekend and I of course my mind is going a million miles an hour as she is moving to the big city in our state, suitable to her age group. What do I do?????? I get it, I need to work on myself and I am.

I just miss her so bad and love her more than anyone I have ever loved. I know we sound unhealthy for each other and we have been. They were just trying to protect me. Probably best not to get the family to reach out to her as that could be a dead end at this point, unless one of the members truly feels what they did was a misstep.

Sometimes it just takes some time for the negative feelings unwind. A passage of time. NC facilitates this. Then she might be more approachable. I hope you are right… she is just so stubborn and often commented that if she were out of the picture, my life would go back to normal. She we would often ask me loaded questions such as if I could picture me getting back with my wife a year from now if she were to be out of the picture. She would tell me that answer told her a lot because she would never get back with her husband. Though I have come to notice more that my wife and I will not get back together with this breakup.

She is also not the type to reach out to me through. You are right, I have hurt her immensely with my words while intoxicated and not dealing with my personal issues correctly and also right that my family is reluctant to reach back out to her but willing because of severe my depression has been.

I also hope you are right that she can let the negative go. Unlike anyone I have ever met, she holds onto the negative like no other. She told me she is not ready to forgive me yet. This has just happened too many times and I have had lots of chances. But this is different. I have really been forced to look in the mirror this time. We had never gone more than 48 hours without talking prior to this.

She is a determined girl. When she sets her mind to things she moves full force as she did with her divorce and never looked back. We essentially had to hide our relationship for the first year because she worked for me and we just had to do everything backwards including not dating normally, being confined to our houses and then the alcohol fueled rages by me that were almost monthly.

I am a successful professional and have everything else together, I could never quite figure her out and my profound feelings for her.

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I hope I am right too. Relationships are almost always tricky. Time has a way of knocking down the negative.

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Hard to hold on to all that negative energy. That is totally normal for him to be angry at first. You are not losing him. This is very common during no contact. The nc rule is not guaranteed to work in any situation.. Not dating sorry. But to keep in touch. Found out she was back on a dating site and already talking to someone new… That hurt. OK here goes. Started dating this girl. It was an instant connection.

But we both had a terrible past. Mine got the best of me and I ended up saying something that hurt her whole in an argument. Do she decided to be active into it. But she still felt weird and had a wall up. We went on a date.. It was great. But she admitted of still not feeling herself. Which ended me in saying, we go our seperate ways, and even telling her that I want us to start dating again. And then the no contact starts…. Things like is she going to text me back, want me back, what can I do, is she going to date other guys? But I did leave her to give her a chance to think it through and start fresh..

We really did have something very very special. I begged so much and was very emotional and I would cry and cry.

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This month we ended on bad terms because she came over on my birthday for the sake of it… her new bf picked her up from my place which I found very disrespectful so I gave her a piece of my mind on how rude that was and blocked her… the next day she blocks me back. Hi Sam, unblock her and make your posts public..

I just broke up with my bf a few days ago. We were on a long distance relationship for more than 2 years. One day before he told me that he wanted to break up with me, we were still on a good term. Then suddenly, i saw that he texted this girl on Instagram and deleted the message directly. I know about this message because I had access to his Instagram and I still got the notification about his message. Do you think he really meant everything that he said? I am so broken right now. I kept texting him, and begging him.

If I do the no contact rule, will he talk to me again? Now he blocked me, so I cannot talk to him. Please help me? Saturday night had a discussion with my girlfriend we have been dating 7 months. She was wanting me to commit to marriage and I told her I was not ready yet. Then she said she could not be where I was religiously.

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That night she went to bed and I went to bed a couple hours later she had to be at work at 5. I laid next to her prayed and asked God to help her with her decision to stay with me or leave me. She said she loved me so much and she was sorry. Three days went by I texted her asked her what was going on, and she replied the same thing we are on two separate paths. I asked her if she was done and she replied she did not know…. So after that I deleted all texts and phone numbers and deleted all pics.

I keep on having this feeling that my ex used to have other girls in his life cheating on me. All he will say is he is not cheating and I should trust him. I have had the feeling that he is cheating for a long time even while we were dating. We broke up because we fight a lot and he said he had no intention of coming back. I got a conversation he was having with his guy friends only and it was nasty. They talked about girls and how they would fuck them and they said that dating is stupid. Would he even consider coming back if he does?

Am I just worried for no reason or could it be true he is cheating as i felt he was and what should I do to not have that feeling anymore? I fear him falling for other girls and even during our relationship other girls were an issue. His clique may have influenced him more that having other girls is okay but I feel bad because I love him.

Help me Amor know how to deal with my situation. I hope you remember me. Today is the 10th day of no contact period. I changed alot. I got new hair. You know? Coz I found someone who is much better than him. We met once. M likes me and yep I like him hee hee. I want to take time. Could you please tell me how to attrack him without letting him know that I like him? We argued over him flirting with women.

I went mad. I sent a few texts asking him why are you doing this to me then ended up calling him a good 20 times, which he ignored. I have done for a week. Please advise, thank you. Made it and some! Ex texts every few weeks. I find it patronising. Thank you…. Hi Amor, It will be 40 days NC tomorrow.

He has been in contact via text and email. Slight jibes and tactics. Really not sure what to do. Any ideas, thank you. Update …so he messaged 8 days later.

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